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【简要新闻】什么让你内心很强大 What makes you strong inside

来源:慢速英语   时间:2019-12-12 15:55:09

I would be lying if I say I don't need companionship.Feels nice to have someone to talk to,to cuddle with,to spend the rest of your life with...


如果我说不需要别人陪那是假的。有人说说话、拥抱一下,有人共度余生的感觉也不错。


Reality-With companionship comes responsibilities,commitment,adjustments,compromises,new relatives,obligations,expectations.These things have started to overwhelm me.


现实是——陪伴也伴随着责任、承诺、磨合、妥协、新的亲戚、义务、期待。这些东西已经开始压垮我了。


When I think about the freedom I have being single and see the kind of life a committed/married individual is living,I feel content.


当我想到单身时的自由,再看看恋爱中人或已婚人士所过的那种生活时,我感觉很满足。

It takes time to become emotionally strong and is a never ending process.I used to fear loneliness until I started enjoying my own company.I've become so comfortable with myself that at times(when my emotional strength is at its peak)I just can't see myself in a relationship.


情感上变坚强需要时间,而且永无止境。我过去害怕孤单,直到后来我开始享受自己的陪伴。我自己生活得如此惬意以至于有时候(我自己精神上最坚强的时候)我都无法想象恋爱了会是什么样。


So I have always been a misfit.I don’t remember a single day in school that I was not made fun of.Same goes for college.


我总是不合群,我不记得在学校有哪天不被嘲笑,上了大学也一样。


I later realized that its human nature to acquire joy of someone else’s misery.I also realized that a person spends no more than 60 seconds thinking about another person a day.I realized that it is preposterous to retool my personality for 60 seconds of someone’s approval.


后来我发现把快乐建立在别人的痛苦之上是人性使然。我也意识到一个人每天只有不到60秒钟的时间是在想别人的事,我发现为了别人60秒的赞同就重塑自己的性格很可笑。


So I checked out completely.Could not be happier since then.


我完全弄明白了,从那以后过得再幸福不过了。


Now no one dares to make fun of me,if they try,I just bring out their deepest insecurities and make them feel like crap.I have incorporated the true nature of society into every molecule of my being.That is why I am emotionally stronger.As for the constant mild anger,that is just my normal disposition.


现在没人敢取笑我了,如果有人试图这样做,那我就会说出让他们最没有安全感的事让他们感觉自己就是个废物。我把社会的真正本质融入了我自身的每一方面,这就是我情感上变强大的原因。至于愠怒,那只是我正常的性格。


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